10 things to start doing to dramatically change your relationship TODAY!
- Every morning before you get out of bed, look at your partner and remember how much you love them.
- It’s a choice to be in your relationship. Choose your partner each day. Choose to love who they are and who they are not.
- Create special moments in your relationships everyday. These can be a quick 10 seconds or 10 minutes or an hour – just keep on creating them.
- Listen to your partner. We all have 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason. Use your ears twice as much as your mouth to keep it in balance.
- Acknowledge, accept, empathize and be present.
- Your partner’s point of view is valid. There is nothing to change or fix, let it be.
- Appreciate your partner as often as you can. Start focusing your attention on what they do that makes you happy, not on what they aren’t doing. If you struggle to find something at first, open your eyes to what you are missing each day – these moments are there!
- Be willing to see the world from there eyes – it’s a wonderful experience when you can see it from their point of view.
- Practice doing something nice, just for them. Something they might not notice, don’t draw attention to what you’ve done, just do it!
- Look into their eyes daily…I mean really look…see all of them, relate to their heart. It’s all about intimacy – IN-TO-ME-SEE.