Finding Your Life Purpose

Get REAL get HAPPY is about finding your life purpose. We approach it from a slightly different angle than anyone else though. Many people believe that when they find their life purpose and pursue it they will experience A sense of Purpose Peace Direction Happiness Fulfillment Knowing Belonging The list could go on. Here are some […]
Why is it Revolutionary

Why is it Revolutionary Get Real Get Happy is revolutionary because unlike other forms of self help and personal development, it recognises that it is the part of you that goes searching for help, your personal that you are trying to develop, that is the problem. Therefore you can not fix the part that is […]
Guilt; a feeling that has no positive purpose

Guilt; a feeling that has no positive purpose In order for you to feel guilty you must perceive that somebody else is suffering because of something you have done. I feel guilty because I left my wife and now my children are unhappy. I feel guilty because I moved my family away and now they […]
Grieving after a relationship ends

We need to experience grieving the end of a relationship in the same way we grieve the death or loss of a person or thing. Too often people forget to allow themselves the space and the freedom to go through each stage of the grief process when a relationship ends. They feel like they ‘should’ […]
The feminine…what’s really underneath

It’s the night before my hubby goes into have a surgical procedure. Logically I know that everything will be fine and he’ll be home either later that day or the next. Emotionally though that is just not the case…I feel myself getting agitated easily and being snappy all which stem from the ego wanting to […]
Patterns of Behavior are an addiction…

We all run patterns of behavior in our life – both positive and negative. These patterns of behavior are either work for us, or are working against us and no longer serving a purpose that is taking us towards something or someone we want to be. What most people fail to realize is that the […]
Bullying – Its time it was stopped.

Bullying – Its time it was stopped. People carry psychological and emotional wounds from the past; things that as adults, they do not always realize are holding them back. In get REAL get HAPPY an issue that comes up time and time again for adults, especially men is the way they had to make sense […]
That loving feeling

Has your relationship lost its loving feeling…you know the one like Tom Cruise and Kelly McGillis from Top Gun. Well then it’s time to get it back That Loving Feeling Here is a simple exercise that you can do, when practiced on a regular basis it will bring back that loving feeling to any relationship. […]
Which belief would you prefer?

So my hubby and I and lil miss were out shopping at IKEA the other day…lil miss being 18 month old loves to explore, walk around and just take in everything… Interesting enough as we were going about our shopping adventure we encountered two vary different people with two very different beliefs…that has lead to […]
We take on roles in the family…

As a child we are looking for love and acceptance. If we can’t get the love we desire in the way that we want it (which we can’t by the way, we have such a specific criteria for receiving love from our parents that it is impossible for them to deliver no matter how hard […]