In life we get to make choices… people tell me ‘I had to do this or have to do that, I have no choice, life circumstances meant that there are no options and the list goes on.
The truth is that there is choice, however sometimes we choose either not to see it or don’t like to take responsibility for the choice we made and so justify it in some way with one or more reasons as to why…
Wouldn’t life be better if we just owned to choices we made?
Wouldn’t you rather see there are more choices and options then you are currently seeing and maybe your beliefs and patterns of behaviour are blinding you from seeing all of the options?
Life is much more fulfilling when we see beyond the blinkers.
Take this morning for example, we woke up at our villa in Bali to it pouring down with rain. It stopped for about an hour or so whilst we were eating breaky.
The rain soon started again which left me with a choice…be disappointed that is wasn’t sunny and we weren’t laying by the pool or stay inside and watch a movie whilst the baby slept…
OR…and here’s the best part…
Dance naked in the rain and jump in the pool for a swim whilst the rain poured down….
We choose to do just that!!!! It was fun, spontaneous, therapeutic, soul reviving, and an all round fab way to spend time together 💜
The best part is that my hubby in the past would have waited patiently under a shelter for the rain to stop (he had popped out to get a few things)…however he ran back as quickly as he could as he knew he’d have a chance to dance in the rain with me and jumped at the opportunity to do something totally new.
It completely different to past ways of doing things. It is beings willing to let go of you beliefs or patterns of behaviour and see things in a whole new way.
So what are you waiting for?! Start seeing all the choices you have in life and start making the most of every moment.
Dance naked in the rain 💦 I dare you