Our expectations ruin many of our friendships.
We form expectations of how people should treat us based on the belief systems we form from childhood.
Belief systems we modelled rather than choose.
When a friend does not act inline with our expectation we distance ourself from them and get upset.
Remember your friends are not you, they are them. They operate inline with their belief system and their expectations.
So save yourself some heart ache and create more friends. By allowing them to act how they do and love them for it.
If your upset with someone, its not them your upset with its your expectation of them.
So change your expectation not your friends.