You can only change YOU

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In our relationship we spend all our time trying to fix, change and improve our partner.

We see this as the way to romantic bliss.

If you want an awesome relationship, you must first realise that it is your job to change you and your partner’s job to change them.

I know they seem to be experts at pushing your buttons, they are your buttons however and they push them mostly be accident and in order to support your growth.

As you feel your button being pushed take a breath and allow the emotion to pass. You will begin to notice that it’s not what was said or done that is the problem, it is your reaction to what was said or done.

As you practise and grow yourself you will find that there are just far less buttons. And with that your relationship and love for your partner will keep growing.

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