Can love really be simple?

Can love really be simple? Do we over complicate things when we get into relationships? Remember the days when you were young and care free…you know when you liked that boy or girl and it was the simple things that melted your heart. Like that subtle glance across the playground, or getting that little know […]

You don’t spell love, you feel it!

I just love this message; Piglet ‘how do you spell love’ Pooh-Bear ‘you don’t spell it, you feel it’ Love is not just saying it (or spelling it at Piglet put it)…it’s truly feeling it…Feeling that warm beautiful sensation emanating in your heart. Too often we find that couples get to a point in their […]

Architect of your own life

REALITY…are you being the ARCHITECT of your own life? Or is your reality, your beliefs, your perception creating it for you? Today, our eight year old was home from school as he was not feeling well (end of term; kiddies tend to get tired and run down at this time…I know many parents out there […]

A relationship tells a story

Every relationship tells a story…each one has many pages and story lines that twist and turn with ups, downs, learnings, insights and growth along the way. The title ‘The Book of Our Love’…with each day we write a new page, with every moment comes a new storyline and with each event a new chapter begins… […]

What you say is what you get

LET’S GET PERSONAL: WHAT YOU SAY IS WHAT YOU GET. The power of language in our life in largely underestimated. We pay very little attention to our use of words and how we construct our sentences. Often this is described as semantics or being unimportant, the reality is very different. In a similar way to […]

Thinker vs Feeler

SUPPORT FOR HIM: Men are thinkers and women are feelers. As we know men and women are very different and their needs in relationships are difficult for the partner to understand. One of the toughest things for the Guy to come to terms with is that when she comes to you with a problem she […]

The blame game

Games people play: Blame We are all guilty of playing the Blame game at some point in our lives. The blame game will not only destroy your relationships it will cause you to be angry and resentful which is not a nice place to be. When you consider making the choice to stop blaming someone […]