‘Shoulding’ all over your relationship

shoulding

Most people are complaining about their relationship or their partner at some level, either out loud or quietly to themselves. Your partner is just not lighting you up or exiting you like you imagined they would or like they use to do. It’s not the dream relationship you had in mind or thought it would […]

A case of ‘cranky bitch’

cranky

So, has anyone ever had a case of ‘cranky bitch’?  I know I certainly have and I’m sure you too have at some point or another.  The emotional state that I call ‘cranky bitch’ doesn’t work well in your intimate relationship, the outcome is not normally one that is in line with creating a life […]

What is it that brings that warm loving feeling to your heart?

feelings

Start to notice the little things that your partner does that light you up…what is it that bring that warm loving feeling to your heart? I’m curious – what are the little things that you or your partner do that bring about a sense of love and gratitude for the beautiful relationship you experience together? […]

You can only change YOU

Mirror

  In our relationship we spend all our time trying to fix, change and improve our partner. We see this as the way to romantic bliss. If you want an awesome relationship, you must first realise that it is your job to change you and your partner’s job to change them. I know they seem […]

Feminine goddess emerges

goddess

THE FEMININE…..So, it’s true what they say…when the feminine goddess emerges…life flow, magic happens….the beauty, strength and knowing shines through!!!… Bub is 28 weeks today and I’m feeling empowered and on top of the world!!! Wow the feminine energy…we are vulnerable, strong, beautiful and amazing beings…when we trust, stay true to who we are and […]

Being passionate

passion

Feel passionate about what your doing now, and who your doing it with… Wow…I think I get it now.  Every where I look its post after post and ad after ad… Come and learn how to follow your passion, live your passion. ” be a life coach and live your passion” Not everyone wants to […]

The magical bliss…

soulful

There are those moments in life with your intimate partner where you glance over at each other across a room and feel that sense of love, connection and magic. No words need to be exchanged there is just a look, that generates a feeling, that fills your body with magical bliss… Too often couples forget […]

The voices in your head

When they asked Michelangelo how he made his statue of David he is reported to have said, “It is easy.  You just chip away the stone that doesn’t look like David.” Lets chip away at what’s not you and then see what’s left, The best make over ever you will love the results. No matter […]

Expectations ruin friendships

Our expectations ruin many of our friendships. We form expectations of how people should treat us based on the belief systems we form from childhood. Belief systems we modelled rather than choose. When a friend does not act inline with our expectation we distance ourself from them and get upset. Remember your friends are not […]

No.10 – She’ll be right mate

An Australian saying that relates to many people. We realise that if we want to succeed at anything we have to work at it. It is possible for some to do well at things with seemingly minimal effort, at the end of the day though if you want to be an expert, master something you […]